Love is never equal to Committment

"You can conquer almost any fear if you will only make up your
mind to do so. For remember, fear doesn't exist anywhere except in the
mind"

I would very much like to share the above wif my colleague & Girfriend. They broke up few months ago, I've heard the story from my GF and i've blog abt it too. Today i managed to find out the other version. I guess it's the fear of the two which lead them to the broke off. The man feared that he is unable to provide for her and unable to handle his financial problem, (well i wouldn't want to dig what kind of $$ problem he has). He is worried that if he "say Yes", he will need at least a sum of money to get married, to standby for the child., (he knows tat she wanted a BB Very much) He is worried that at his age, he don't have a chance to see his child grown and he has to work even harder to earn more. He is stressed that he has to report every night, even thou they are not married yet, wif his busy schedule, thou both in the same line, she don't seems to understand. He felt that the GF is not willing to listen and understand him, he is tired after a hard day, yet reporting is a MUST. Therefore, he decided to break off and never wanted to contact her, he feared that SHE will get the wrong idea and put in her love again, whereby he know that he can't commit anything for the time being. He told me : Hey, who wouldn't want to have a family, who wouldn't want to have a partner who can share, but since i have no confident i can be a good husband/dad who can provide for, don't waste her youth".

It takes two to make the relationship work. It takes time to understand the needs of your partner, it's never a easy task. The three P's of success in relationship

Passion , Persistence and Patience.