Married?? Single? Married but available.

Hee.. tis few days since to be "buzzing" on tis topic. Is it better to be married or single? Well it all depends. It's wonderful to be happily married with no worries. At the same time, it's great to be single if u have nice people around you, and of course when u have the money to spend and enjoy life.
S'pore is too stressful, to be married, is not like fairy tales, the prince and princess live happily after. It's a realistic life both need to face. worst when we plan to set up a "complete" family, we have to be both financial and mentally prepared. It's not easy to have kids here.. $$$!
I'm married, wif a man who loves me.. what else can i expect? there's always ups and downs in life, we can't condemn a person juz becos of his downfall. I've enjoyed before, so what's the problem of a little suffering right now. We have to be fair, isn't it? But we are juz human being, it's natural when we turn 2b greedy at times.. the sweets in our friend's bowl is always tot to be sweeter, until we got hold and tasted it, then will we realised, it's the same.... cos heaven is fair!
I wouldn't enjoy if I have a rich BF but i have to share wif others, worst, If i cried more than I enjoy myself wif him, then i will rather be alone forever. It's good to have someone we love but it's would be better to have someone who love us! LOVE MUST BE RECIPROCATED then there will be HAPPINESS!!!