ABANDONED CHILD
I wrote this letter after having a good chit chat with my hubby last night. I know I will never send this letter out or read it to whoever is concern.
Veron, your mother in law, or to be precise your ex-MIL said you have packed and left your 2 children at home month ago, you are giving them up to their father, YOU HAVE RUN AWAY FROM HOME. You are not going to fulfil your duties as a mother anymore. I don’t know, I never blame you at all, I ain’t Saint, and I’m not saying that I encouraged you to do so. The kids are innocent, they are not the one who betray you, or walk out of you. They are your flesh and blood. It’s that man whom had exchange marriage vow with you 10 years ago, who choose to give up the marriage, breaking the happy family.
No doubt, you have a very bad reputation in the family, you have done lots of wrong, you have cause people to stay away from you, you aren’t getting enough support from your in laws, but you jolly well know the reason behinds it. You have speak lots of bad things behind my back, you have been a hypocrite, but I’m not an unreasonable person, all I can do is stay away from your family as well from my so-call in laws, I’m free of troubles. Sad to say, Me, whom you had always look down, was the only one who is speaking up for you. It’s ok, I need no Thank you from you.
As a woman, I believe the Chinese saying " A tigress be it how cruel she can be, will NEVER harm her babies" I know it’s gonna hurt you so much to leave the kids who you have carried for 10 months, who was so close to you. I felt that the reason for you doing all these are as follow:
Getting back at your ex-husband, the man whom your parent has entrusted you to.
For the past few years, you slog ( I don’t know if this is the right word to use) to keep yourself going, to bring up the kids, to support the house, to give the best to your kids ( or you are just vain and trying to show off) what have that Man done?
When the kids are sick, you stay up to take care while he is enjoying himself with other woman / family of his out there.
You paid for everything, your flat, your car, PUB, phone bills, school fees, maid etc, yet that man didn’t bring back a single cent. I think you really have problem bringing back the same amount you could now, i know your situation now
Now that the man had finally decided to sign the paper ( of course because the flat can finally put up for sale) he is telling the whole world that because you wanted the kids, he will give you the house as well as the kids, so that the three of you will not starve. He knows better than anyone that you will not get cash for the flat, but to bring up the 2 kids, you need hard cash.
Last but not least, you know the kids will be in good hand even though you walk out of them. Their grandparent will never abandon them, just as what that man is proposing to his parent, $50 per week, that’s the price he can pay, in order for his parent to take care. They love their son, their love their grand children, they have to accept it.
But Veron, I also wanted to point out to you, spare a thought for the kids, they did not have a healthy environment, did not have a proper family, what will happen to them when they grow up? They are really pitiful, mother walk out of them, father ignoring them, how long can their grandparent take care of them. They are only less than 10 years old, they have a long way to go. Especially Deon, who is suspected to have problem with communicating with people, he needs attention, he was neglected for the past few years, is he going to be like that forever?
It’s sad, really sad, but there’s nothing we can help. My hubby knows very well, there is nothing he can do, although he doted on the 2 kids very much. It’s the family culture, EVERYTHING THEY DO, ARE ALWAYS RIGHT! It’s sad…….
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11:42 pm
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