DUMB Dominating dominator!

S'porean bosses are really one kind. I think our company will turn out to be another failure like the one which was closed down if we continue employing that new AGM. He is going to ruin the place. I dislike him, first impression is very important, but obviously he didn't make it. I'm not the only one, all the white shirt don’t like him, I’m sure our manager feel the same way too.
Now he wanted to get rid of one of my colleague, well, he put it very nicely to the big boss, it's for the company's benefit because he made mistake, unforgivable mistake. I know they are costly, so it's one of their plan to remove all the high flyer, but they think local can make it? We have one too soft spoken, one too restless to take up big responsibilities, one not that experience, one too yaya, worst cert not recognised and the other one is a idle king waiting to be place in the office and getting whatever he is being paid. That stupid old man, trying to be nice, I think he is too naïve, thinking that "landed property" is his friend.. wait till he learn from you all your stuff and kicked you back to FIJI. sigh... old man... Belum kena belum tau!

It's so Painful

I shouldn't have read the paper in the bus.. No.. i shouldn't have buy the paper at all. I just couldn't control my tears from rolling down... from airport to Punggol.. i tried.. but it just refused to go away.. i couldn't control myself too. By the time i reached home, i just burst out and guess.. he had a shocked!

I read about the boy who died in an accident, right in front of his aunty, in the hug of his mum. His mum tried to do CPR for him... in vain... he didn't make it. Oh gosh... I know the pain.. it's so helpless, you just see your loved ones died.. yet there's nothing you can do.. really.. in fact you are numb.. you don't know what can you do.. and for all you know you will be screaming and screaming till you are completely NUMBED...

No way that time will healed... no way.... it's a kind of torment which will be torturing you... for life.....

So Touching

I just couldn’t control my tears.. I just dunno how to describe my feeling right now. I’ve made a lonely man’s day.
I’ve got an uncle to deliver a cake to this lonely man who is staying in a rehab centre. I mean since he is in Perth so I ask him to do me this favor and of course if he can’t then it’s fine for me, I don’t wanna spoil his trip too. Yet just 10minutes ago, I got this email from the lonely uncle. He said"

A daddy's Pain

I was shocked when i heard the news from him. I feel for him.. really.. I know it's hard for parent to accept that their baby needs to go thru a big operation, a hole in the heart for a new born.. oh dear.. that's too much for everyone.

I'm never closed to him, all i know about him was he can be a pain at times. I know he is harmless, it's his character, perhap he is just not sociable, he is too out spoken, too harsh. Seems like not many people like him... at work.

I'm surprised that he will tell me about all these, surprised that i'm first to know... The doctor suspected that something is wrong with the bb hence got an appointment yesterday for a thoroughout check up. Result turns to be positive! The bb will have to go thru another rounds of check up and decided when the Operations to be done. Poor bb... He is so cute and fragile, i hope God will bless him, i will pray for him that the ops will be a successful one. At the same time i hope his daddy's colleague will be kind and co-operate with him, he needs time to settle his personal issue, any man with a heart will be there to support and not leave sh*t for him to clear.. I'm not gonna forgive if at this moment, anybody still wanna play office politic. I told "daddy" he have to alert the boss, so that some arrangement can be made during his absence. The bb and his wife needs him. Poor mummy.. she is still in her maternity confinement stage and she have to deal with all these, it's understandable that both of them have a sleepless nite..

I've offered what i can help, at times we just have to seek help not only from the doctor but our religious, i hope i'm able to help them walk thru all these, though... we are not even friends.. but it's the baby...

Anyone out there who read this blog, let's pray for Xiao Bao....

Happy Mother's day

Mothers'Day, a day seems so far away from me. Well, my Dear mama passed away 16 years ago and I doubt I'll be one for the rest of my life.
Since it doesn't concern me, why Blog? Okie.. just some thoughts streaming into me. Must be the Mothers’day Sales in the mall, Usually quiet hawker centre flooded with children having breakfast/dinner with their mothers and also children holding flowers walking around.
Is there a need to be like that~hyprocrite? Guess if we are gonna be nice to our papa & mama only on their "day" and the rest of the 364days we either ignore, neglect, being irrespectful and worst ill- treat them.. Oops.. then I guess they would rather we stop our "Acting" then.
I’ve worked for a govt dept where there are chances for me to meet up the elderly and find out about their current condition. Apparently there are so many of them who were so lonely and desperately hoping to see their children, to have a decent meal with them and talk to them. Some were living alone by themselves in a rented flat others who is luckier might have a maid with them. They only get to see their children when they are really sick and worst, many even died in the house until neighbor reported to the police.
Quote some "Filial" sons I know, whom I DO NOT agree to their idea/ways of filial piety. They too are parents themselves.
#1 Casanova – Very filial, as he say without his mum, there won’t be him! He will make an effort to wake up early to drive his mum to the church. He will not forget the birthday or any special occasion of his mama. He is known to be a "Yes Mummy" son. His wife will get the opportunity to have a meal with him during these special days, other than that, sorry… every 1,3,5 he have to spend time with his scandals and 2,4,6 with his friends in the Pub.
#2 Valentino – Another filial son. Never say NO to his mama. Thanks to mummy who wanted a trip to China and that gives the one in a lifetime chance for the wife to tag along. Valentino have no time for his wife, mother of his 3 daughters. What to do, he have so many Thai and Indonsian Girlfriends waiting for him.
#3 Mr Cool – I doubt all these special days mean anything to him. He was so busy( ya boy, nobody know what is he busy of, he don't even bother abt his biz anymore) that he don’t even have time to have a meal with his mama, he can’t even spare a minute talking to his mum. He have NEVER bought a gift for his mum, while his mum actually contributed for his Porsche. All that Mama wants from him is to have a meal together once a week and have a little chat, if possible. Oh ya, what breaks her heart was ~~ The diamond, rolex, handphone and expensive dinner in hotel were gift to his GF.
See… That’s what Filial Piety is all about

I DO NOT deny the fact that there are also filial children who really love and respect their parent from the bottom of their heart. A Merit and Applause for them!

It doesn't pay to be nice

I didn't know that man can be so fickle minded and hard to please. So you expect everyone to be like you, Work come first! Mind you, if you are dying, do you tink the company will present you with a plaque, No.. only a wreathe worth 50bucks on your funeral! No matter what others did, It's always not up to your expectation, even if we as an outsider felt it's good enough, you will always ask for more. There is no concern, no thank you from you, oh boy, even if there is, i doubt you are sincere! Halo, not everyone is like you.. so bl**dy lifeless! You choose your path and you enjoy ya.. you are a live sample for us, we don't wanna have this kind of miserable life which you are leading, thank you very much.

I know it has got nothing to do with me, I'm not that hard working, I don't love the coy Sooo much, and furthermore i DON'T need your recognition so when i need to go, I'll go! Just your luck, I'm not in a very nice mood today, and just MY LUCK to open my mouth teasing you!

But all these are definitely worthwhile, cos it's clearer to me that you SUCKS!

Just Another Disapointment... Again

I know it's Another false hope again… though I'm already prepared for it and have actually anticipated the outcome before he told me the news.I just know how it will turn out to.. In fact it's just Another round of disappointment that's all… well just suay lor always kena me.. I dare not say that I deserved it, but somehow I'll feel better if no one tells me before it's finalised. let me know until the day comes..
Though I've already know what the outcome might be, still it doesn't feel good.. Again…. Why So suay… It was like that last year.. this year again… Anyway, He have not break this piece of bad new to me, but I know by the time I finish blogging about it, he will call for me and break the news to me. Well, I know it’s not easy for him too, he is stucked in the middle too, there's nothing much he can do , it's the Company Policy, so what can he do? But I swear, I don’t blame him at all, I didn’t blame them last year, nor will I do it this year. In fact, I should thank them, at least they appreciate lor… Thank you hor, Young and old man of course and the Older man too!
Thanks ya! Just give me the $$, that's my greatest motivation!
It's Okie.. Tomorrow / Next Year Will Be Better…

Sucks Sucks Sucks

How can HR personnel be Soooo Bloody unhelpful!How can she say cos she is "New" in the company, she DUNNO.. please... if you are lazy you are lazy.. ha.. new ah.. employee no 4974 and you have the cheek to call yourself new! Thanks to all the preservative you have got that make you look and think that you are Fresh. Bl**dy hell!

Human Resources refers to the individuals within the firm, and to the portion of the firm's organization that deals with the hiring, firing, training, and other personnel issues.

It's just a small claim issue, just a small piece of paper and i doubt it will kill you. If the simple claim form is so difficult to read & understand, ask your superior! Don't just think of throwing back to the dept, it's a waste of time. Why can't you be a bit helpful, why only be nice to people when you need helps? if i can call up finance and check who is the rite person, why can't you? It's HR duty to verify the entitlement of employee and HR is the best person to endorse and give the approval! HR is one of the Key dept in all organization, but i really doubt the capabliity of the HR in our company. The director is a Taiji master, i'm sure he will train his subordinates up to promote the chinese famous Gongfu.... taiji...

sigh... sad lah.. sad for the coy.. to think the coy spents millions of $$$ every year paying good bonuses to all these parasites and housing them in the coy, it's worst than a hospice..