Thank you Lao Gong

Today is my dear friend's birthday, but I really need to thank my dear hubby! Why??? Okie, last evening, i wake him up from his nap, asking him to pick me from work becos i need to get something from Bedok. Despite been REAllyyyyy tired, he still come. Sekali, i call the lady who is supposed to provide me with what i want and ! her shop is CLOSED and even if she is open, NO STOCK!! alamak.. I know i will die.. my hubby will sure scold me making him make a waste trip.. Luckily... he didn't and even suggest me to go Compass point since he remember seeing it there.

Okie, we went cold storage, saw what i want, ask the lady if there's wrapping service, she reply very hastily and impatient " no no!, you want to cut i cut for you, u pay there lah" huh... aiyo, jialat, then i got to buy wrappers, ribbon and blah blah blah.. but that's not the most difficult part, the thing is i DON"T KNOW how to wrap.. Thank God, my lovely hubby say he will help me, since once upon a time he "ever" did such thing - for work lah. Suay suay.. couldn't find ribbon.. so he say will drive me back to Punggol and see if we can get.. So sweet right... So we went to the food court for makan before getting the gift.

After choosing the gift and the "side gift" aiyo... long queue sia..never mind, I have come all the way, I will persevere... after paying, i walk pass that lady and guess what? I saw her WRAPPING for someone! Bloody hell... I told my hubby to stand there and wait, i walk to her and go straight to her & asked " halo, you say you don't wrap, then what is this? walau to think i went thru the hassel to buy the wrappers and etc.. now how" she reply " oh.. oh i forget lah.. hmm.. why don't you take the ready wrap one, and hmm.. pay the differences lah, sorry hor"

I really gave her a hard stare and my hubby was already beside me, fearing i would strangle her, he said we will pay the difference, but don't expect us to queue again.. She agreed lah.

It's not the end, i was thinking how to go to work tmrw.. hahaha, telepathy come in place, before i speak out, my hubby say " don't expect to kajiao me tmrw morning and bring you to work, you find a way to bring it there" huh..... okie lor.. he is so sweet already... BUT.. you think i will let him off so easy.. hahaha.. this morning, i applied "double dose" of perfume and lay beside him.. hahaha.. he start sneezing like mad.. hahaha.. bingo! Mission accomplished! He sent me here this morning with my gift~~~

hahaha.. Thank you Lao Gong...

Happy Birthday.. Adik!

So boh liao...

Walau, I really can’t stand that ah cai. I just came back lunch with the minister of Kenya, and he start to tease us. Basket, he told TP that he came back all the way from Sas** to have lunch with me, yet I went out with Mr Kenya. Bullshit! He can call me before he come back wow, like real. OK never mind, I told him I still got 15 min to spare him if he really wanna have lunch with me, I can join him. That shuts his mouth.

Then when I was talking to Gop about his shift and jokingly say that he have lots of OT, ah cai comment that I’m very top form today after having "candle light"lunch with other guy. And again he start his wayang, saying he come back all the way lah.. blah blah.. now he so poor thing gotta go and have lunch hinself, so lonely blah blah blah.. This is such a rare opportunity for that GOP to attack me of course he rub it in AND say " huh, like that ah, ya lor she oso never invite me" sigh.. what to do.. Then Ah cai did not let that poor Mr kenya, who was sitting quietly at aside off, he said " see, see, that guy after lunch just quietly sit down there, act blur hor""

!#$%^& It’s alright if you guys wanna tease me or say anything about me, but don’t make my friend malu, it’s just a lunch, what so big deal. I invited TP oso, but he say it’s too early, furthermore, Samson also mentioned he don’t want all of us to go lunch together, must make sure someone in the office answering to calls, so what you expect me to do.

Now then you ask me to go with you to SAS** to eat, then if you don’t come back after, how.. I walk back or you expect me to crawl back. TP already invite you to eat with the rest, just go lah, what’s your problem. You think i don't need to work, just go lunch and play carom with you is it.. U want me to get sack ah.. After hearing abt the bonus stuff from someone, I already xian liao, thank God i didn't arrange my holiday yet..

Don't ever look down on woman!

Our Valentino Yim saw me playing carom with ah cai and he said I will never win becos his philosophy : MAN Rules THE WORLD! He say woman will NEVER win man in any games! He even boast saying that he will give me 8 seeds ( handicapped) and I don't even have to confirm the red seed. For those who don't play carom, each player play with 9 seeds. So in order not to drop woman's face, I took the challenge. Hahaha, I finished him in less than 2min! hahaha.. He still have 6 seeds to go! The rest of the guy did warn him before, never underestimate a woman's will to win! This is what we call typical MCP!

Yummy Yummy

1700hr - 1800hr

Free and easy while waiting for my chauffer to pick me up!

1830hr - 2100hr

CRAB feast! Hooray.. My favourite shop and nice yummy crabs. Many many ways of cooking and yummy yummy... It brings back memories.. but I know there will be no one there to help me with the crab...

A shoulder to cry on.

Who's the guy who come up with this philosophy - man don't cry.. Bullshits! They do, but often they try to control themselve since as a boy, they were taught to be strong and don't shed a tears. It broke my heart when my best friend told me he cried every hours mourning for a relationship which ended suddenly. We were supposed to meet up this week, he apologised that he have to cancel our appointment and at the same time he have a secret which was kept from me and many others for years, he needs to tell me.

He said " Erica, I have never dare telling you a secret part of my life. I have a lovely gentle chinese BOYFRIEND of your age for the past 8 years. But yesterday, he told me our love story was coming to an end and it broke my heart. I cry every hour and it is really tough. Maybe i should meet you next month instead, because this time i fear to cry in front of you. I consider you as my really best friend ever" !

I wasn't too shocked when i read this. In fact, I have long suspected that he is a Gay, as we are really best of friend, it's doesn't bother me and I'm not gonna look down or despise him or anything. I respect him and most importantly, I wants him to be happy. You know, I feel how he feels, I cried too.. I know it's not easy and I'm so worried for him. It's part of life and sometime we just have to learn to accept. I hoped he can be strong and quote what my hubby says, "the next one will be better" ( pretty surprised that my hubby's reaction was positive, thought he always can't stand gays! That's him, he will support me in anything i do or say. *_* mucks! )

I really don't know how long he will take to recover from this break off, I hope he will be strong and like what he always say to me, " YOU HAVE MY SHOULDER TO CRY ON"

Weird Dream

How long can one love another?5 years? 10years or 20years? How long does one takes to forget about someone? 10 or 20 years? It's so difficult to love someone and it's so difficult to forget about someone too. They say time will heal and help us to forget all unhappiness.. What about those happy time? Will I forget about the past, those happy days? I wish I don't, maybe that's the reason why I just simply couldn't let go of the past, the happiness and sadness.

Had this weird dream last night. I dreamt that I was holding the hand of a man whom I hated just to spike the one I love? Weird.. What the Hell am I thinking? I thought it should be the other way round? What am I doing with him, he should be the last person whom I wanna dream of. He should be the last person I wanna stand beside with. They say dreams are opposite.. I hope it was.

My JB Trip

I just came back from JB trip with the guys. It's a half day trip for me but it's fun! We spend our day viewing terrace house and semi D with Kenya minister, Mr Shabbir and his PA ( that's me) and bodyguard, Suhaimi . Our Heng Heng Travel agent, Mr Chan & assistant, Eddie following the reporter Gien have been very great host showing us around. The above picture was a place where we supposed to dine with the Sultan ( he is too busy, so he cancel the appt). We had our Nasi Lemak, Satay ( yummy S$0.20per stk), sambal sting ray, chap cai, cockles(half cooked) sambal sotong and fried chicken! Of course not to mention the nice teh limau! The best part - Hooray! I got to see a Rainbow! I was so excited when Eddie pointed out to me! The view was fantastic. Oh ya, I should have listen to the guys, go to the toilet and take a pic of the toilet. Enjoy the "natural" view of peeing into the sea.. aiyo.. I hope they don't get the stingray from there >_<

Then we went to Jusco where we start doing our groceries shopping. From past experience, eddie Never failed to fill up the car boots with his shopping, we had to pre-warn him to control himself and not indulge in spending too much $. Our Kenya Minister bought a carton of Bundung for his mum, very filial boy. Only realised it's so easy to prepare the drink after we tell him it's like ABCs.

Though the night ends early, but we really enjoyed ourselves. We are planning another trip, JUST eating and shopping..

Sharing...

Do Not grieve over the past,for it is gone.

Do not worry about the future, for it has yet to come.

As long as it is called today, live this day as if it was your last,

and you will find each day worth living for!