Can Money buy Love?

It's not a kind of "sour grapes" feeling.. but is there a need to spend so much money just to make a person happy? Or put it another way round.. Don't you think it's so "unfair" when you are always trying to please the person you love and all she do was just get ready to enjoy whatever you have plan for her.. be it happy or NOT EVEN showing signs of appreciation. It's sad lor.. after all you have plan for her and all the expensive gifts, all you get is FINALLY...... a picture of her posing with you! sigh...

First - The birthday.. expensive jewellery, good dinner and nice roses.
Then - the expensive spa package, nice flowers and a posh dinner in a cable car, and the most romantic stuff - a paper ring!
Now - The " head cracking" venue for dinner on Valentine's Day.. quote what you are telling your friend, " you lucky, your wife help to plan.. mine only sit there and wait to get ready"
After - A $5K bridal package ( according to her, INSUFFICIENT) - hey? I thought need to get permit before taking her picture?? So in actual fact she love to take picture lah. Can't imagine a $20K for a ROM.. So lucky of her.. she will gets to enjoy those romantic moment until she is 80 years old!

If you spend most of your life,
lying to yourself and others,
your life is basically a lie,
self-deception -
not a true life,
not truly living.
It is the sustenance of delusion,
that only propels you into greater delusion.
But the moment you snap out of it,
you seek the Truth,
you become true to yourself
and your whole life turns around.
The Truth is always there -
you only need to turn around.