Shanghai , Suzhou , Hong Kong and Macau

Tomorrow I'll be going for my Rest & Relax Holiday! It's been a year since i came back from Taipei and I'm really looking forward to this trip, Reason... I'll be going with 2 VERY important men in my life - My Hubby & Nephew. Oh ya, I'll be bringing my mum and dad too..hmm.. I mean their picture lah, cos it's always my dream to bring them oversea, esp China since i have an uncle there, but then too bad.. this dream can never be fulfilled.

Anyway, I need to thank people around me to make this trip a success one.

My bosses - Thanks for the bonus hahaha.. and all the info on what to do & eat, as well as all the nagging ( i know you care lah though i tends to act as if i'm not interested... i kay kay only lah)
Liu & Mark who have given me lots of info and mark was so nice, he even ask if i need any contact in HK, in case if i'm lost! hahaha.. Liu was sweet, he offer to put me up at his place, but it's not nice to trouble his in law there, hence i turn down the offer.
The 4 Planners, since I'll be away, I've planned some job for them, so thank you lah.
The guys in the office, they have been helping me to source for hotel, even to the extent to call their friend from HK to get me a place to sleep andgetting me travel guides on Macau.
And don't know who - sponsored Macau $1, who knows, i might kena the jackpot with this dollar. ( fat hope lah)

What a lousy ME

I thought I will be alright.. I thought I'll be okay after so many years.. I thought i'll be strong. But in fact.. I'm damn bloody lousy.

This morning went to Bedok Reservoir to pick my sister up ( she visit her old neighbour). The moment I turn into the carpark, I started to shiver.. The scene which happened 9 years ago struck me! I just couldn't make myself stop at the block. I guess my sis is very much stronger than me, she can actually go up to the place where she once lived before the accident happened. The feeling sucks.. I realised that I just couldn't control my tears. Phew.. I really tried.. but I can't. In order not to affect my sis, I have to be strong, yet.. My *stupid* hubby actually asked me if I will ever buy a flat opposite that block! NO WAY, over my dead body! I know he don't mean to rub it in.... but sometime man are real insensitive animal.. I don't blame him lah.. just >!!<>

Sigh... really spoiled my day..

How many time must i tell you - BE YOURSELF

Someone asked me can "A MAN and WOMAN can be just friends". This topic have been round and round and seems like no one can give the perfect answer.

For singles, we DO NOT have the worries of gossiped by others, the most people will mistaken that we are couples - but SO WHAT .

For married man/woman, people will start to gossip if we are close with the opposite sex. They will start to speculate that something fishy must be going on and they will start to comment that we shouldn’t have CLOSE friend of the opposite since we are MARRIED. I don’t agree with that, although we are Married that doesn’t mean we can’t have friends.

For one who is single but having a married close friend, problem again.. those childish people will say " either party MUST have an Ulterior motive".. sigh.. it’s never ending.. why think so much? It’s fate that brought us together, so why bother what others said and lost a friend. Why bother how others look at us. Most importantly we know that there is nothing else beside friendship and we are comfortable with one another. Perhap it’s gonna be a bit uneasy initially, but as long as people got to know us long enough and we are able to STAND firm, the rumour will soon fade away.

I am a close friend with many of my husband’s friends and they are comfortable with me and my husband is alright for me to go out with my guy friends - it’s all TRUST. Somehow or rather I always believe that it is good to have male friends and I have MANY, more than woman.

Can a married man and a married woman be just friends? Yes, if their ultimate goal is to remain just friends and they work hard to keep it that way . " just Friends - As in "only" friends. No sex, no lust, no passion, no secret dreams and desires: just friends.

So.. my dear friend, why you worried what others feel about us.. remember we are more than Friends, ( hahaha.. we are good friends) we still have to face one another for many years.. so don’t worry what others look at us and just be comfortable, why bother to hide our friendship when others are around.. BE YOURSELF!