No Marriage = No sex, NO New House

I don't understand? Getting Married should be something happy right? Regardless if you have a Grand wedding or just a simple ROM. You are going to be married to the man/woman you love, so it should be a joyous event right?
Sigh.. But then I REALLY don't see the happiness in my friend! He is pulling a long face and it seems to be that he is going to be hang soon! But then again, for all we know, he is the one who can't wait for the day to come. Or to be precise, he is waiting for the BIG Night! As they were believers of ( NO MARRIAGE = NO NEW HOUSE & NO SEX) but then he is dying to have his VERY OWN AND NEW HOUSE as well as SEX so much hence he can't wait to sign the paper! But is he going to be happy? I doubt so! It's a mistake since day 1. Marriage is for Life, it's not the masah masah thing which we used to play when we were young. I know it's so common for people to get married and divorced, but I truly believed If I wanna get married, I will not Divorce. Why go through all the hassel and trouble people around you, and yet go separate ways! Might as well use the money to help people who needs it or best still, give it to your parent who brought you up, who clean your sh*t when you are a baby! As for SEX � What s difficult, Young and single man can go Geylang and have fast food then ( Sorry, I don't really encourage this, but then.. so many people are doing that isn't it?). And for God sake, one can buy a house when you are 35! If you really need a BRAND NEW HOUSE, then have the money, buy a piece of land, you can have it as big as you want, as new as you want! Money makes wonder lah! And of course, with $$ you can get basically any girl you want! One who will not complain about the class of the venue where the dinner will be held, one who will not chase you out of the house when both of you argue, one who will not tell you straight on the face she don't like your gift! hahahaha.. so funny

My Sweet little nephew

I went to pick up Eugene from school last evening and went to his place. it was so sweet of him ( he is always an angel ) to give me 2 packets of choco and 2 packet of MAMEE noodle. He said " ah yee, this choc is a big one, not small one and this noodle is not the maggie noodle, you cannot cook you know? Don't need to cook". When i told him I have some tibits at home, he can have it back, he insist i accept his offer and I am SUPPOSED to share it with his uncle.
 
We had dinner together and when asked what drinks he want ( always root beer) he said hot tea becos the weather was cold so must take hot drink to make himself warm . Hahaha.. No way man.. I'm sure he will change his mind very soon. Then when we were about to order from the aunty, he changed his mind to iced Milo instead. After dinner, we went NTUC to get something for him and proceed to get the car.
 
While we were about to leave, he give me a kiss( as usual; my sis was so jealous) and reminded me AGAIN " ah yee, remember ah.. the noodle cannot cook ok"! HAHAHAHA.. when i eat the noodle, he is not even born yet, and then now i was repeatedly reminded by him.. so funny.. but it make my day!  

From friends to Lover~Wow! How nice!

Moving from friends to lovers with a man is not always easy. It can actually be very frustrating for some. It is not always easy to make this transition happen in most instances. In fact, it can make or break a relationship if we are not careful and does not do all the right things to make sure that it is moving in the right direction.Do not expect too much. You should not think that everything is going to go smoothly and that you are both going to be in this great relationship together. You need to be realistic. Think about positive things and hopefully they will go that way but always prepare you for the worst possible scene. You should be aware that it might not go as you have planned, but at least your feelings are out in the open.Let him knows that if he feels the same way great, but if not, you still want to have them in your life. It is so important that you are not pushing them out of your life if things do go as you expect. Be patient and considerate of their feelings and you may be surprised at the happy ending that you get. It may be worth the time and all the anxiety that led up to this one perfect moment between you both. Not everyone is as lucky as you to be able to turn friendship into relationship. Treasure it.. Come to think about it, It's so sweet... First you get to meet someone, whom you don't really like him, then as time goes by, both of you became friends.. just friend. Years gone by, you became blossom friend with him and you laugh when he is happy, you frowned when he is sad, that's when you know, the seed of friendship have grown to be Love.

Congrats, my dear friend!

Never Judge a Book by It's covers

I was really very disappointed this afternoon after i sent out sms and received a reply from someone. It's not any love letter, but just an sms to my friends and relatives, asking if they are keen to help by donating to the China Earthquake victims. This is not the first time i'm doing all these, i did that during the last Tsunami. I should say there are many kind soul out there who is willing to help, regardless of amount. I don't ask people to give more, even if you are giving $1, it's help too.

The reply I got from that Groom-to-be was cold.. very cold i should say, His reply " DON'T WANT". @#$%^ I would rather he don't reply lor.. To him, it's man's pride that he hates to negotiate with the club where he is going to hold his wedding, He would rather pay more than to negotiate, cause that will make him lose his face! Come on lah, it's not as if you have a Brad Pitt face or Andy Lau's face.. just a common face where you can get it ANYWHERE. He don't look like one idiot who is so uncompassionate, yet he is behaving this way.. Okay, maybe his wedding is more important than anyone. I know donation is voluntarily and i'm not forcing anyone, but don't reply that way, i'll rather you tell me you have donated!

Don't want!~ ~~ this word have never been so strong and harsh before..

Anyway, i'm not losing hope because of an idiot, the response from my friends were pretty good, from $10 to $100, even my little nephews are coming out with $10/- he would rather forgo his Ben Ten watch.. so sweet of him! So I shall consolidate the money and go down to the china embassy or just Bank of china who is the authourised collection centre to give the money. Will get the receipt so that people who donated, know that the money is in good hand.

I MAY NOT BE RICH, I MAYBE IN NEEDS OF MONEY, BUT I WILL NOT MAKE USE OF OTHERS TO GET THIS MONEY.

I could have just do it by myself, bring down the money, even if it's just $10, but i thought since i'm going, why not get more and bring it down for the rest too. Let's do something meaningful, let's just forgo an expensive lunch and help the needy.

I Love these quotes

Just because you know someone doesn't mean you love them, and just because you don't know people doesn't mean you can't love them. You can fall in love with a complete stranger in a heartbeat, if God planned that route for you. So open your heart to strangers more often. You never know when God will throw that pass at you.


It breaks your heart to see the one you love is happy with someone else, but it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.


In our desire to find love, we hurt people.. in our desire to keep it, we hurt ourselves..

For you.

I miss you when something really good happens,

because you are the one I want to share it with.

I miss you when something is troubling me,

because you are the one who understands me so well.

I miss you when I laugh and cry

because i know that you are the one

that makes my laughter grow and my tears disappear.

I miss you all the time,

but I miss you most when i lay awake at night

and think of all the wonderful times we spent with each other;

for those were some of the best times of my life .

For Mr Saint~~~

“The worst lies are the lies we tell ourselves.

We live in denial of what we do, even what we think.

We do this because we're afraid.

We fear we will not find love,

and when we find it we fear we'll lose it.

We fear that if we do not have love we will be unhappy.”

Wow.. It's so meaningful and I would really like to dedicate to my dear colleague! Yes! don't live in denial! But then.. it's too late already to stop anything since both of you are looking forward to your wedding which is coming pretty soon... hmmm... hey.. sala.. i should say the "sweet" First time! hahaha...Safety first :<)

Thunder Tea Rice

Must be wondering what kind of Salad is this right? Must be wondering what the h*ell makes me turn Vegetarian or switching to a "healthier" diet right?
Ermmmm... I don't expect to eat that box of grass and leave and nuts and Taukwa, and ya not forgetting the healthy "organic" Brown rice! Unbelievable!

Introducing to you!

Hakka Thunder Tea Rice!

What is this? let me explain! The Benefits Of Thunder Tea Rice:
Green Tea: Powerful anti-oxidant, helps to lower cholesterol.
Basil & Mint: Anti-stress, for cooling & calming effect, aids relaxation, relieve colds.
Fuliksum: Remove body toxins and fluid wastes, strengthen immune system.
Chinese Parsley & Coriander: Ease digestion & gastric, combat flu & headache.
Ginger & Ngal: Expel body winds & gas.
Sesame: Maintain youth & enhance beauty.
Groundnuts: High in protein, good for stein.

It's all herbs & veg., high in fibre, rich in vitamins & herbs provide medicinal value. It has excellent physical & pharmacological value. Frequent consumption of this rice promotes good health. Physical value: Enhance slimming & body detoxification. Pharmacological value: Fatigue prevention, vitality promotion, physical improvement, improves body functions, ease digestion, ease chronic bronchitis, prevent hypertension & hardening of arteries, effective for chronic rheumatic and arthritic, inhibiting cancer cell growth, helps treat diabetes, enhance relaxation & improves good sleep.

See.. I really must THANK him! Thank you so much for buying it for me.. though.. I really not very interested when i open up the box.. but never mind, you shall make it up during our dinner tonight!

It's been a While..

BUSY Busy Busy Busy.. Very Busy.. lots of happening in my life! For the whole of last month, especially 2nd half of the month, So busy.. Then comes May, I thought things will be better, No lah.. As busy, busy with helping other people, busy with my home, busy busy busy..

Forget about the unhappiness, forget about the funeral, it's over, and it's time we all move on. It's times like that which make us see through others, and we matured with the help of all these people. Thanks but No thanks! I had enough, and It's more than what i can take, so forgive me if i can't remain cool and calm. I can't stand the sight of Adults who is so irresponsible. Where were you when we need advice? Where are you when we need someone to talk to. And also, just when we needed the $$ most, brainless adult like you can open your mouth for a loan, not $100/- but 10K! You think we have nowhere else better to spend our $. So ugly of you! So shameless! Anyway, thanks for showing your true colours, Aunties!

Okay, talk about some happy things. Someone just made my day .. in fact it happened last week, can't reveal much, but it's sweet of him, I just can't stop "smiling" after i heard him saying he ONLY did something for ME.. Just me.. walau.. pai seh sia.. whether it's true or not, whether it happen or again another "false" hope, It's alright, it doesn't matter to me lor.. That VERY Moment brightened up my days, and made my colleague wonder" Hey cha bor.. what's wrong with you lah?"

From Friends To Lovers

Sometimes I feel sad and sometimes I feel blue

but whenever I see you, I'm as happy as can be

for you bring a smile upon my face

and a feeling of joy within my heart

you're like my sunshine in the morning

and my stars that glow at night

you're like the waves in the ocean

the cool breeze in the wind

like the call of the birds in the morning dew

like the sounds of beauty in the night

you see all of these things are of beauty and love

that's how I feel whenever you are near

for it was the passion and desire from both of us

that opened up the world for our eyes to see

for our love of each other will grow and grow

and our needs and desires will be more everyday

for a friend you once were and will always be

has turned into love as it should have been

so I want you to know as a friend and lover

that in my heart and arms you'll always stay

for our love for each other will never fade.



by Joe Vieira

p.s: For you Agnes & James with Love!