To My Best Friend~~ Jen

I think i'm drifting apart from you. We seems to have became stranger eversince you got "rich"! Bear in mind, it's not lottery or big bonus, it's hardearned money from your parent. We lost our common topic, i can no longer "click" with you anymore. It's upsetting. I thought whenever i need you, you will be around for me. I'm always there for you when you needs me, but not now. Reason?

1. You are into branded stuff, which frankly speaking, I can't afford and I don't see the need now. I'll rather have more cash with me. You have got yourself not only 1 but 3 LV bag in less that 2month and not to forget, that Rolex for your hubby and also... a bigger car!~
2. You are leading a "tai tai" life, but i can't. I can't be joining you for lunch as and when i like, I have to work for a living!
3. I can't join your piano class, I can type but not with that "keyboard"
4. I won't be able to join the Yoga class since tai tai like you only attend afternoon class.
5. I can't afford to go oversea as & when you like, even though it's just a short getaway to a little town in JB, you can well afford to spend S$500/- for that 3D2N trip.

When you away or planning for your trip, not once but many times i ask if you are bringing your father, the answer is standard- He don't have a passport and he don't want to go, moreover, i can send him to my aunty house. Come on, what so difficult to get a passport. Old folks are the same, they always gives lots of excuse not to get out of the house. U have not even try to make an effort to ask! Even your aunty wanted to bring him for a trip becos she thought you can't afford it since your hubby is the sole breadwinner. That's not true, you can well afford it. Maybe I'm just too sensitive, You no longer speaks like what you used to, you became erm... a little yaya now.. every single cent you spend comes with the best reason such as you need a break, you are very stressed taking care of them, you need to pamper yourself, you need to have something to motivate you into continuing taking care of your men at home. Come on, it's your DUTIES as a daughter, wife and mother! Times are bad, I've reminded you. Save for raining days, you never know when the day will come. I'm speaking from experience, but you choose to ignore me. Life without money is miserable, your friends who keep asking you to buy expensive and branded stuff will all be gone once you have spend all your money. Oh ya, I've forgotten that they are all housing agent and insurance agent who make big bucks, they are doing your biz and i'm sure they are happy to know that you belong to the tai tai group.

I'm just a little admin asst, but i just wanna let you know, the day when you needs me, maybe i do not have the money to help, but Ray and myself will be there for you. For now, I think we shall stay away from your circle and we wished you well!