Trust No One!

Confucius and Mencius says : The Goodness of Human Nature is full of Craps! At least this was what I always believe, yet, it all changes after last evening.

Since we are running a 24 hours shift, if there's any things which needs to be given to all staff, esp those on night shift, I will just leave it on the desk for the Planner to distribute. All these while, regardless if it's documents or gift like bags, speaker and watches. NEVER ever did they gone missing. This stupid watch ( one and only) for the Camp guy was left on my desk since last Thursday night. I was on leave on Friday and back to work on Monday. So when I found it on my desk, ultimately I ask Joel did he collect his watch and he said yes, even nice to give me the names of those who have collected directly from my boss. So I just leave it aside.

Then on Tuesday morning, on my way to the office I saw JJ, who was asking me for the watch, happily I told him he can take it from my desk that evening when he report work. Moment when I step into the office, I realised there is no day planner, hence I wrote JJ's name on a post it pad and paste it on the box, leave it on the planner's desk and I went out for my course.
When I return from my course, it was still there and we were even sitting near the desk distributing some bags from the UNION. When I leave the office at 5.15pm, I still see it on the desk together with the piece of note requesting the planner to distribute the bags to the guys.
Evening about 7+, JJ sms me, ask me where did I leave the watch.. @#$% how can it be missing? That moment, I thought my boss was playing pranks on me, ( he can be pretty childish) but till late night, I still did not rec'd any call from JJ saying he got it and that's it! The watch just vanished! How can it be, I thought I can trust the guys? I really hoped it's some outsider who walks in and took it ( bullshit, it's not that obvious and there is always people in the office). The day shift guys can be trusted ( I believed) and so does the rest of the guys here. Working here for more than 4 years, I would say, there maybe a few clowns and jokers, but so far nothing have gone missing ( at least for my stuff, not counting those tools). It's not as if they don't have, all of us was given one, why so greedy ?
This morning when I came in, I called my young boss and guess what? He say " it's ok, no worries, I'll just get one from HR later and give it to him, don't worry about it lah" Hello.. it's a matter of principles, we can't just let the matter rest? Even if we can't get the culprits, don't they think they should be careful of our stuff, there's a thief in the office and we can't just let that bugger got away. It's so scary to have a thief inside we don't know who he is, how can we work in peace? Does that mean we have to carry our Hp and valuables everywhere we go, strap our handbag with us wherever we go? I'm really surprised that he can be so cool.
This really spoil my day…. Really.. Who can we trust????

Scrooge !

That Scrooge in the office was telling the boss that "woman are very calculative of minor things" such as usage of stationery! Bloody hell, who is he to comment on woman when HE is the one who was WORST than many women out there. Just becos you wanna curry favor the bosses, just becos the bosses say yes, he dare not say NO, SHAME on YOU as a man!
 
Chinese say 小男人(Xiao Nan Ren) and that's you! Ya, we are calculative, and we learnt from you, we are calculative with minor things, unlike you, inviting people to your wedding and yet have to stressed yourself so much over the ang pow. Man like you, calculative over new year ang pow for your 3 nephews which we woman won't, you are calculative with MAJOY things only mah!
 
It's a blessing and we enjoy seeing the smile on people's face, hence we are happy to give out ang pow to our loved ones.

Joker!

That fat controller is in deep shit. It's 3.30pm and a customer who were trying to make appointment with him to clarify some work issue and how dare him~ Telling the customer, PLEASE COME BACK AT 5.30pm! Walau, he is so daring lor.. i konw he must have ran back home to fetch his wife or running his own errand. It's not the first time. He will be out of his desk going from Changi Airport - Pasir Ris - tanjong Pagar and then back to Changi Airport again! All these will take more than 2hours and i would say members have got it;s privilege! So far, nothing happened to him. When i asked him, out of concern, why must he rush that way, he claimed that it's instruction of his wife who is working there, she NEEDS him to fetch her to work regardless if he is on duty! What kind of wife is this! You know your husband is at work, then why can't you just take a MRT or bus! What so difficult! So pampered meh? What if something happened outside which officially he shld be at work, then how to answer.

I know this won't kill him, even if the boss know that he went disappear, all he did was ask me to check if he clock out or not. all of us ( ME especially) knows very well he went out for LUNCH? only, but he is just stupid to tell customer to wait for him for 2 hours. End up, who lugi? Silly man lor. The wife is to be blamed too.. if his husband lost his job then it's better for her, i guess, can send her to work everyday and don't need to rush! Can even makan and shop before reporting to work.

Woman.... 'Whatever you give a woman, she will make greater. If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby. If you give her a house, she'll give you a home. If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal. If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart.
She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her.

So, if you give her any crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit.' ( I really agree with it lor! )

My first X'mas Card!

My Very First X'mas Card for 2008!

What surprises me was there's a AUD$50 taped inside the card! He shouldn't have do so. But according to him, eversince he received his first 'Ang Pow" from uncle Lim on his birthday, he thought he wanna do the same thing. Cute uncle! Actually the most touching part was he actually remember my hubby's name! That's really very sweet of him. So we have decided to give him an Ang Pow too when i send him a traditional Chinese New Year card!

I Hate December!

December seems to be a difficult month for all of us at home. It used to be a month full of joy and happiness.

I've been thinking so much of him, those days when he was a kid, those days when we had our first meal at A&W, the gift he bought for me, the joy and happiness he had brought us, and worst, that Fateful day! I've dreamt of him lately, he was a little boy and he was sick, I had to bring him to the doctor.

It's so heart breaking, I know I shouldn't be crying, which we were told as an elder, we are not allow to pray him, not allow to cry as it's bad for him, but I just couldn't help it. It's so painful whenever we thought of him, my dearest nephew. I don't even dare to go to my sister's place, cos the atmosphere was usually "down" during this month and every year during his birthday.

I Missed him So Much! If only we can turn back the clock... I hate Christmas! I hate Boxing day! Why must it happen to my family? Why? Why Him? Life is so UNFAIR to him!

My Perfume Collection

Reason why i'm putting all these pic of perfume I had/having now is because i realised I've really tried out quite a number of different brands. The above pic was taken last week when i spent about $200/- on perfume in ONE day! Crazy right! I just can't resist not buying, it's cheap with staff discount. And out of all my collection, at least 3 was gift from my friend who works in a perfume shop, and coincidentally, I started buying when i first started working and one of my friend's cousin was working at DFS. Seems like I have special affinity with people in that line!

Perfumes I had

List of Perfumes I had since day one!

Thrifty? Miserable Life!

I have not gone for the so-call honey moon, unlike some couples out there. But I really treasure every single trip with my hubby. Be it trip to Taiwan, China, HK, Australia and many more. All these trip may not sound like any luxury trip like Europe or Switzerland or Paris, but we were really happy and enjoy ourselve with all the Food, Scenery and time together of course with manageable budget. We try to make every cent worth, not to the extent of scrimping and behave going on tight budget, We try to make ourselve as comfortable as possible, using the keast money to enjoy ourselve. We managed to get little gift for family and friends, we managed to try out most of the "die die must eat" stuff.
Today I heard someone actually said they change S$300/- for 2 person to Korea and they still have a lot money left after the 7 day trip! How did they managed to do it? I know most packaged tour come with hotel, food and maybe entrance ticket to theme park or places of interest, but I'm sure there were times when we need a drink, try out some local snack, buy little gift for closed ones. According to him he said" Can u imagined, the first 4 days we didn't even spend a single cent, we were so Thrifty" Alamak, all the way there and you are trying to be thrifty? Then might as well stay at home! Oh ya, I've forgotten that they were one who can spend 8hours on a S$70 per pax Buffet. They sure know how to make full use of the money. Not to say one of them is a Planner and the other one is an accountant, I would say, if I'm like them, I'll be driving BMW or Porsche!
No wonder he is never Happy! Honey Moon should be memorable and full of happiness. Oops, to correct Newly wed should be full of smile, but he is just not. Maybe that piece of meat aren't tasty enough or like what my dear adik said" The last 3 days his wife got menses, so can't do mah"! But really the more I see him, the more I dislike him, imagine being colleague for so long, today is the first time I've not spoken a single word with him. This will show him that I can't be bother and I'm not interested in his sad "wedding?Honeymoon". Marriage life will not turn him to better, in fact, Worst! Save our Sympathy, it's pointless for people like them. They are happy, Good for them!